IM NOT DESPERATE....

What's with the comments about me sounding desperate??? I am not desperate!! All I was sayin is that men dont take the time to get to know me and just judge me from a couple of conversations....How am i sounding desperate??? See this is EXACTLY what I mean...I write something about how I feel and I get labeled as desperate...GRRR...I don't GET you men... If you're gonna call me that,at least let me know who you are instead of leaving "anonynomous" comments...