Saturday, May 24, 2008

Logging off....

So Im sitting here yet again at the hospital (why do i always write when Im here?) So its official...I am no longer going to be on ANY, I repeat, ANY of those dating websites...and yes that includes e-harmony. Why do I say this? Well maybe it's because of the latest "attempt" at getting to know someone thru these sites...the most current one called Blackchristianpeoplemeet.com ( i should have known better than to sign up on this one) They should of called it Blackplanet.com...the sequel, because that's all it is, only slightly less ghetto. I don't know what's with these sites...I mean the men that are on there are mostly liars (the women too for that matter) It's ridiculous. It's supposed to be a christian website but I have yet to meet ONE who truely is one. I get hits but the pics are downright hilarious...Well there was the Rick James look-alike and I thought Biggie was dead ( he had an Orange FUR COAT ON..what the heck???) But that's not what put the nail in the coffin for me.....I can deal with that...just don't answer those ones but it was the ones that seemed cool that I did answer. They turned out to be complete flakes. All they seemed to want is something sexual and yet proclaiming to be a man of God. Grrrrr.... This last one was making KISSING noises over the phone at me! YES kissing noises! And we only were chatting....how long?....Less than a WEEK!!! Eck! And every time we talked he would mention something pertaining to kissing or touching me! Double-Eck! I told him I didn't like that and he had the nerve to get mad! The other one, ( and it was only TWO...so that tells you something right there...can only find TWO on a christian dating site) just completely stop talking, and he was telling me that he KNEW I was the one for him...after a week of talking! WTH? Is it me or do all the men on these sites decide they "love" you within 2hrs of talking to you? And then when you tell that's too soon, they get all upset and then stop talking to you? Compared to these two...BIGGIE was looking tempting...but I digress. So I have banned myself off these sites...it seems like God is telling me to cool it and dating sites is NOT the avenue where I will find my ONE. Im not all broke up about it either...this will save me money. Altho this site was pretty cheap (which should have been ANOTHER sign) I still Completely deleted my profile. I must admit I still have an e-harmony page but Im no longer paying for it. The matches on there were weird too...it's just not for me and it's time I get that thru my thick skull. So from now on, Imma just coast on thru...maybe One of these days I'll actually MEET the one that will prove to me that they are NOT all the same.....

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